Spina Bifida can be emotional, physically, and financially taxing. There are a lot of aids that I could find on the internet and support groups. I'll list their links on this page and a short description of what each is.
1. Support Groups & Play Groups; on this page there is a list of support and play groups for those with/or with children who have spina bifida. There are multiple cities and states listed. See if yours is there :)
http://www.spinabifidaassociation.org/site/c.evKRI7OXIoJ8H/b.8647429/k.9E6C/Support_Groups__Play_Dates.htm
2. Get Your Questions Answered: on this page there is a question form or a number you can call. These people will answer your questions and support you in your quest for finding the truth.
http://www.spinabifidaassociation.org/site/c.evKRI7OXIoJ8H/b.8271987/k.9F92/Ask_the_Expert/apps/ka/ct/contactus.asp?c=evKRI7OXIoJ8H&b=8271987&en=clKNL3OLJbKWKdPOJaJTL9NYJpLXLhP1JjJVJiP6IzH
3. Learn about becoming an advocate for spina bifida: this page contains helps on knowing how to become an advocate
http://www.spinabifidaassociation.org/site/c.evKRI7OXIoJ8H/b.8029661/k.9C75/SPEAK_for_SB.htm
4. Financial Help: on this page is a LONG list of financial aid to help pay for the costs of those with spina bifida.
http://www.spinalcord.org/resource-center/askus/index.php?pg=kb.printer.friendly&id=10
5. Online Chat/Support Group: on this page you can help others, or ask questions
http://spina-bifida.supportgroups.com/
6. Chad's blog; he has lived with spina bifida and shares some of his insights. It is up to date and a good read.
http://iammorethanjustdamagedgoods.com/
Wednesday, April 8, 2015
Tuesday, April 7, 2015
Being Raised by a Mother with Spina Bifida
My mom has spina bifida, but that has not impacted her on being a good mother to me one bit. As a mom, I think she spoiled me. I do not remember having many chores. Looking back on it I really should have helped her out. I think her disability forced her to be creative in many situations. For example, when she does laundry she uses prongs to be able to reach the socks in the bottom of the washer to be able to get them into the dryer. She also places laundry baskets in front of her to be able to take them from one place to another rather than carrying them. To vacuum she puts on her wheelchair breaks, vacuums a small section, moves and repeats. There are so many things I could have done to help that would have been much easier for me to do than it is for her to do. My mother is not one to complain though.
Having spina bifida, I can tell, gets hard on her sometimes. There were also occasions where she had difficulties with bladder and bowel control, which were out of her hands. I could see how sometimes it was very embarrassing and sometimes frustrating for her, but I always tried to make her feel okay and loved. It was sad for me to see her struggle in these moments. Especially once when my dad got frustrated/tired. I can understand that it would have to be hard on him as well though.
There was also the difficulty of places that weren't accommodated for people that were in wheelchairs. The places without ramp entrances, handicap bathroom stalls, sidewalks without a curb entrance, places without sidewalks, and many others. It was even hard sometimes at places with the accommodations, it is hard to keep a place maintained for those in wheelchairs. Once, at my sisters parent teacher conference at the High School, my mother was just strolling along and there was an uneven differences in height in the side walk and it stopped her wheelchair abruptly and the impact caused her to fall out of her wheelchair. She ended up landing on her nose and had a large cut. That got me mad and for a while I was mad at the high school, but it just goes to show that accidents happen that are unexpected, and they do happen to everyone.
I once asked my mom if she was ever sad that she was in a wheelchair and she was honest with me. She said, "When I was younger I used to get mad a lot. I would wonder why I wasn't like the other kids. I would focus on the things that I couldn't do. As I got older though I came to understand how that didn't help me. I started to focus on what I could do. I also never thought I would get married, or that no one would want to marry me, but then I met your dad."
I am so grateful for my mom. She is a wonderful, beautiful, amazing woman. Nothing stops her. She is still human though, but a very special one to me and I will always hold her dear to my heart.

A picture of my mom and I on my wedding day. I love you Momma.
Having spina bifida, I can tell, gets hard on her sometimes. There were also occasions where she had difficulties with bladder and bowel control, which were out of her hands. I could see how sometimes it was very embarrassing and sometimes frustrating for her, but I always tried to make her feel okay and loved. It was sad for me to see her struggle in these moments. Especially once when my dad got frustrated/tired. I can understand that it would have to be hard on him as well though.
There was also the difficulty of places that weren't accommodated for people that were in wheelchairs. The places without ramp entrances, handicap bathroom stalls, sidewalks without a curb entrance, places without sidewalks, and many others. It was even hard sometimes at places with the accommodations, it is hard to keep a place maintained for those in wheelchairs. Once, at my sisters parent teacher conference at the High School, my mother was just strolling along and there was an uneven differences in height in the side walk and it stopped her wheelchair abruptly and the impact caused her to fall out of her wheelchair. She ended up landing on her nose and had a large cut. That got me mad and for a while I was mad at the high school, but it just goes to show that accidents happen that are unexpected, and they do happen to everyone.
I once asked my mom if she was ever sad that she was in a wheelchair and she was honest with me. She said, "When I was younger I used to get mad a lot. I would wonder why I wasn't like the other kids. I would focus on the things that I couldn't do. As I got older though I came to understand how that didn't help me. I started to focus on what I could do. I also never thought I would get married, or that no one would want to marry me, but then I met your dad."
I am so grateful for my mom. She is a wonderful, beautiful, amazing woman. Nothing stops her. She is still human though, but a very special one to me and I will always hold her dear to my heart.

A picture of my mom and I on my wedding day. I love you Momma.
Spina Bifida and Pre Natal Surgeries
It has not been proven that pre natal surgeries are best for babies with spina bifida. Many have come to believe this though. There is a group called MOMS, which stands for the Management of Myelomeningocele Study. This group is currently doing research to discover whether pre natal surgeries are actually more effective than post natal surgeries for children with spina bifida. They have not yet released their findings, but here is what they have to say about their study:
Background of Management of Myelomeningocele Study (MOMS)MOMS is a research study designed to compare two approaches to the treatment of babies with spina bifida: surgery before birth (prenatal or fetal surgery) and surgery after birth (postnatal surgery). Spina bifida is a complex birth defect in which a portion of the spinal cord and associated nerves as well as the surrounding spinal bones and overlying muscle and skin do not fully develop. At birth the incompletely developed portion of the spinal cord protrudes through the open bones and skin. The incomplete development of the spinal cord can occur anywhere along its length, from the neck to the lower back and results in a variety of medical problems. One of the most common and important conditions associated with spina bifida occurs because the brain is positioned further down into the upper part of the spinal canal (neck area) than it should be. This abnormal positioning of the brain is part of what makes up a condition called the Arnold Chiari II malformation. This malformation leads to blockage of the normal flow of spinal fluid causing it to collect in the fluid cavities of the brain (ventricles). The condition of over- filled ventricles is called hydrocephalus.Since the 1930's, the first step in the treatment of babies with this condition has been to surgically close the opening in their back within a few days of birth. The surgery puts the tissues back in their normal position and prevents further damage to and infection of the nervous tissue, but DOES NOT restore function to the already damaged nerves. The second step is usually placement of a thin tube called a shunt within the ventricles which allows for drainage of the excess fluid and relieves undue pressure on the brain. A shunt usually passes under the skin from the head into the abdomen. Over the years, doctors have noticed that nerve function in babies with spina bifida seems to worsen throughout pregnancy. Often movement in the legs and feet which can be seen by sonogram early on is not seen later in the pregnancy. This suggests that there is ongoing damage to the open portion of the spinal cord, possibly from contact with amniotic fluid. In addition, both animal and human studies have shown that the ability of the body to repair damaged nervous tissue is best in young individuals. Because of these considerations, doctors have been working on ways to close spina bifida defects as early as possible. In 1994 doctors began trying out various methods for closing spina bifida defects while the baby is still in the mother's womb. Since that time, many improvements have been made in the procedure. It is still not known, however, whether it is better to operate on a baby with spina bifida before or after it is born. MOMS is designed to answer that question. The National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD), a part of The National Institutes of Health (NIH), has funded this study to compare how babies who have prenatal surgery do compared to those who have postnatal surgery. There are three participating MOMS Centers: the University of California at San Francisco in San Francisco, California, The Children's Hospital of Philadelphia in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania and Vanderbilt University Medical Center in Nashville, Tennessee. The study will be coordinated by the Biostatistics Center of the George Washington University in Rockville, Maryland. The goal is to find out if either treatment is better for the baby. [Back to Top] Clinical Trials-Overview of a clinical trialA clinical trial is a strictly controlled study of new therapies and treatments which is done on human beings. Clinical trials can be used to look at the effectiveness and safety of a wide variety of things such as new medications, therapies or types of surgery. In this study we are comparing two approaches to the treatment of babies with spina bifida: surgery before the baby is born (prenatal or fetal surgery) and surgery after the baby is born (postnatal surgery). A clinical trial is done when it is not known which treatment is better. -Steps to ensure fair comparison of two types of treatmentSeveral steps are taken to be sure that the two types of treatment under study are judged fairly. Clinical trials are usuallyrandomized. This means that neither the doctors or other staff involved in the study nor the study participants have any control over which treatment group an individual is assigned to. In addition, clinical trials are usually blinded. This means that key personnel involved in evaluating the results do not know which treatment was received by a participant. In this study the participants and the doctors performing the surgery will know whether the woman had surgery before or after delivery, but the specialists who evaluate the progress of the babies will not. -Safety Concerns Safety of study participants is always the top priority. Before a clinical trial can begin, the study goals and design are carefully reviewed by a special committee made up a wide variety of individuals including doctors, nurses, social workers, ethicists, community members, and clergy. This committee is called the Institutional Review Board (IRB). No one associated with a specific clinical trial can be on the IRB which reviews that study. IRBs from each MOMS Center and the Biostatistics Center had to approve the MOMS study. Prospective study participants must always be fully informed about the study goals and design, as well as possible risks and benefits, and sign an informed consent form before being accepted into a clinical trial. [Back to Top] Overview of the StudyMOMS is a long-term study which began in early 2003. Two hundred women 18 years of age or older who are carrying babies with spina bifida will be enrolled in the study. They must enroll by their 25th week of pregnancy. Half of the women will be assigned to have prenatal surgery and half to have postnatal surgery. This is a randomized trial meaning that neither the doctors at the MOMS Center nor the women who participate will have a say in whether or not they are assigned to surgery before delivery or surgery after delivery. The prenatal surgery will be done at one of three MOMS Centers between the 19th and 25th week of pregnancy. Women in both groups will deliver their babies at their assigned MOMS Center by C-section around the 37th week of their pregnancy. Women assigned to the prenatal surgery group will stay in lodging near their MOMS Center from the time they are accepted into the study and have the prenatal surgery until they deliver their baby by C-section around the 37th week of their pregnancy. Women assigned to the postnatal surgery group will return home after they are accepted into the study and will be cared for by doctors in their area until they return to the MOMS Center at 37 weeks for delivery by C-section and for postnatal closure of their baby's spina bifida defect by the MOMS team neurosurgeon.[Back to Top] Process for inclusion in the study-Initial ScreeningInterested women or their doctors should call the Study Coordinator at the Biostatistics Center of the George Washington University, to obtain information and to have a preliminary assessment of eligibility. The Study Coordinator can be reached at 1-866-ASK-MOMS. Those who are interested in pursuing enrollment in the study will be sent a package of information about the trial and will need to sign an informed consent form to allow the Study Coordinator to evaluate their medical records and speak with their doctor, if necessary. If after reviewing the medical record eligibility is confirmed, they will be assigned to one of the three participating MOMS Centers. Women will not be able to select which MOMS Center they will be assigned to. Convenience to the women as well as the need to evenly divide the participants between the three centers will be considered when making MOMS Center assignments.-Final Screening The next step after the initial screening process is for the woman to contact her assigned MOMS center to arrange a date for an in-depth evaluation. The study will pay for the woman and the baby's father or another support person to travel with the mother to the MOMS Center and meals and lodging will be paid by the study while they are at the MOMS Center. The evaluation is quite extensive and includes:
If the evaluation confirms that a woman is eligible and she chooses to participate in the study, she will be asked to sign an informed consent form and she and the father will complete a brief psychosocial questionnaire. [Back to Top] Randomization and SurgeryThis is a randomized study. Assignments to have surgery before birth or surgery after birth will be made by a central computer system. Neither the MOMS Center staff nor the woman will be able to choose which group she will be assigned to. As soon as the evaluation and psychological tests are completed, random assignment to the prenatal or postnatal surgery group will be made. -Prenatal Surgery GroupIndividuals assigned to have surgery before birth will be scheduled for surgery within one to three days of their enrollment. The surgery must be done before the end of the 25th week of pregnancy because there is some information suggesting that the earlier in pregnancy it is done, the better the results may be. Because the surgery will be done so soon after the assignment is made, individuals will not be able to return home once the assignment to prenatal surgery is made. They should come to the MOMS Center prepared to stay until they deliver, around 37 weeks of pregnancy. -Postnatal Surgery Group Individuals assigned to the postnatal surgery group will return to their home community for care by their doctors. At 37 weeks, if the baby has not yet been born, the woman and her support person will return to their MOMS Center for delivery by C-section. Babies will have their spina bifida defects closed when they are medically stable, usually within 48 hours. Infants with spina bifida are usually in the hospital for one to two weeks after birth while they are stabilized, have their spina bifida defect closed and undergo a thorough medical evaluation. [Back to Top] Risks of Prenatal Surgery-Possible Risks to the Mother
-Possible Risks to Fetus or Baby
[Back to Top] Follow-upOnce stable, infants will return to their home communities for follow-up by their regular doctors. In addition to care by a pediatrician or family practice doctor, enrollment in a program specializing in the care of children with spina bifida is strongly encouraged. MOMS Center staff will help you locate the program nearest your home. Children and their parents will return to their assigned MOMS Center at one year and two and a half years of age for evaluation. Motor function and developmental progress will be checked as well as bladder, kidney and brain development. This long term follow-up data will enable us to determine whether the outcome is better with prenatal or postnatal surgery. Follow-up assessments will be done by a team of specialists who will not know whether the child had prenatal or postnatal surgery.Again, all travel, lodging and meal costs related to the follow-up visits will be covered by the study. |
Spina Bifida Myths
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Spina Bifida Myelomeningocele
Spina bifida myelomeningocele. That last word is a handful and it is pronounced
my-ello-men-ing-go-seal
To review, this is the most severe form of Spina Bifida. It happens when parts of the spinal cord and nerves come through the open part of the spine. It causes nerve damage and other disabilities. Seventy to ninety percent of children with this condition also have too much fluid on their brains. This happens because fluid that protects the brain and spinal cord is unable to drain like it should. The fluid builds up, causing pressure and swelling. Without treatment, a person’s head grows too big, and may have brain damage. Children who do not have Spina Bifida can also have this problem, so parents need to check with a doctor.
There are so many different levels of spina bifida and the nerve damage caused also ranges. My mother has spina bifida and she cannot walk, but there are others that can use crutches, and some people with spina bifida can walk and run just fine.
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my-ello-men-ing-go-seal
To review, this is the most severe form of Spina Bifida. It happens when parts of the spinal cord and nerves come through the open part of the spine. It causes nerve damage and other disabilities. Seventy to ninety percent of children with this condition also have too much fluid on their brains. This happens because fluid that protects the brain and spinal cord is unable to drain like it should. The fluid builds up, causing pressure and swelling. Without treatment, a person’s head grows too big, and may have brain damage. Children who do not have Spina Bifida can also have this problem, so parents need to check with a doctor.
There are so many different levels of spina bifida and the nerve damage caused also ranges. My mother has spina bifida and she cannot walk, but there are others that can use crutches, and some people with spina bifida can walk and run just fine.



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